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Originally Posted by lilypup
There are nice ppl who will be ur cheerleader, but it takes a lot of work to both be a friend/ and have a friend when bp is involved. Keep working gently to inform ppl and make sure you are thgeir cheerleader when they need it.
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This is a good point lilypup. Relationships go both ways and when we are also a good friend to others, that opens the door for reciprocity. Not in a manipulative way, just naturally. And it *can* be hard work to be a good friend but with certain people its definitely worth it. You can be choosy with who you spend your life energy on.