Yep, EV...placing myself far back so that hard stuff can be talked about while I'm at a safe distance. it's tough because then discussion is limited.

Another thing I did was took the craft I would do at home so all of me could be present while t brought up a planned topic. Whew, fireworks....and "I" got to watch. Also, music was used to reach the inner children.

We're creative ppl's and have to be creative in moving forward in understanding ourselves.

KD