Thank you so much for your advice. i have been doing a lot of soul searching since that post, deep down i think i'm more afraid then anything because he's the only person i have ever been with physically and emotionally. given his recent behavior these past couple days i'm not even sure i would want him back. he is acting like a complete child running out buying a new cell phone(we are both blue collar workers so every dollar counts with little ones) playing on social media sites with other women or girls would be more appropriate. He is telling everyone that i am keeping him from his kids . When in reality i have called several times to ask if he wanted to pick them up or visit because they ask for him every day. I honestly don't know what he is getting out of this.