One thing I can guarantee is that if I do make the decision to have a child it wouldn't ever be treated like anything but loved and wanted; I'm a caring person who has one way or another been taking care of people since I was a child.

In my early 20's I was adamant that I didn't want to be a parent, my partner at the time who was in his 30's told me he understood where I was coming from as it had been his attitude at my age but 10+ yrs had changed his mind. He always said I'd question my decision in later life (I guess he knew me better than I thought)