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Old Jul 29, 2014, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Asiablue View Post
I still have a lot of work to do so even reading that word, termination, does strike fear in my heart. It's really good to hear you're ready to fly the nest! Have you thought about how you'd like to honour the process? Terminating over a long period, any " graduation" ritual you'd like to do?
Well, I'm hoping I won't terminate. I like 'reporting' to T how well I'm handling stressful situations. I like discussing (intellectually) aspects of emotions, psychotherapy, the brain, etc. I like showing off to her all of the positive changes I've made in my life, my attitudes, my emotions. And I like her feedback.

But I don't NEED her. And I don't know if the above reasons are enough to continue with her. She's very busy and cannot take on new clients. I feel slightly guilty for taking up space that might be used by someone more needy than myself.

In any case, I know I won't terminate quickly. But it feels like that possibility looms ahead of me.