(((((((((( Jax ))))))))))
It's the best you can do, just try to avoid being hurt, sometimes, some people just don't see the empathy, others have and/or are gifted with, and she may be one of them.
I think you have made a good point of one of the reasons she is this way to you, in all reality it may not have anything to do with you personally, but the fact you were a person in her life during the past, sadly the lashes are going to you, though it may not be you?
Jax, come here anytime, this is a great place to hang out and share stuff.