Having a physical bond without an emotional bond only proves your equipment is working. It can be deflating to find that that amazing physical connection does not have an emotional counter part to it. It can be even a more empty feeling.
Having someone you can talk to or share with can be a comforting experience. In my opinion, virginity is not what makes or breaks a man, but having a compassionate heart and seeking to be helpful to others.
I am not going to start perfect any day. I start right where I am and accept that and just try to get closer to expressing what is bursting to express itself in a positive way.
What forms of creative expression do you like?