btw....
I, too am from Richmond!! I grew up there. What a small world!

If it's any consolation for anyone here, I don't have any family at all. I don't mean this in a "feel sorry for me way" It is what it is and I have to make the best of it. I have found helping others, especially older people a way to not be alone so I do errands for them and keep track of them as some are in their 80's. They are like mothers to me!