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Old Jul 30, 2014, 06:30 AM
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Not buying that all he wants is a "honest apology" - who gets to decide what is honest. Glad you are taking steps to get better - but antidepressants can take awhile to work if you find the right one. What kind of doctor are you going to? You will need a therapist as well to help you learn what is going on with you and how to make things better for you and your children.

You want to consider therapy for your child(ren) as well. I know you have "talked" with them and they want your happiness - but they have been affected by this as well - and that is a very smart move on a mother's part. Not sure what your money situation is but there are places that will work with you.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany

“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
Thanks for this!
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