I'm so sorry for yr loss...you both shared some very hard things. Abuse is sinister. It robs us of our innocence. I too was abused by a family member but when I finally got the courage to talk about it I was told to shut up and that it didn't happen. You both shared a very delicate issue...it bonded the two of you. I.know she's grateful to have had you to talk to about it. I would have done anything to have someone to listen. It's a tragic end to a life just beginning. I'm.just so sorry.