Hello,

I am new to posting anything like this but I am not sure what to do. I just found out a week ago that my wife of 17 years is having an affair with a co-worker and has been for the last month or two. She says she is done with our marriage and wants a divorce. We have had issues in the past but I honestly thought we would be able to work it out if we both tried. We both made a lot of mistakes and I am the first to take responsibility for all I did wrong. My issue is I am still madly in love with my wife and want to work things out. This is breaking my heart and our 9 year old twins hearts. She says she has made her decision and we are done and continues to see her boyfriend. I am not sure what to do. I would love some impartial advice. If anyone has any questions just ask. Thank you,

Michael