Hello everyone , I have posted here before but to help people remember me .IM THE CRAZY ONE WHO MOVED 3000 MILES FOR A GUY ...well,tonight I told him its over ! Not easy as I love him so very much ...I moved here first by myself .I was here for 6 months ,,I lived with him in his parents home..then my kids came to live with me and from then on the kids and I have lived everywhere but with him..he just built a home behind his parents home BUT, we cant live with him because he said" He wont and cant support my kids" two of them are grown but have had problems with the divorce of thier father and I ...they dont do drugs ,they dont drink the problem is they are shy and need guidance..he knew I had kids ..I also have a son who is 11 and he does very little with him..The kids and I live in a terrible apartment complex ,alot of violence ..while he lives in the country ..I asked him tonight if we were ever going to be together? he said"When the time is right and that is when the kids get self sufficient ..I understand in some ways but I work and He doesnt do anything for them now ,,I do it all...I told him we needed to end it tonight and too never call or come over again..I dont want him to support them but I need emotional support to help me guide them in the right direction,,it hurts for me to tell him goodbye but for 2 1/2 yrs I have been here with no family except for my kids and he has never stayed onenight with us..Im scared to do it all by myself but I will ...I cant go home now because I dont have the money to get back home ...anyways ,,I just wanted to know if anyone knows how to get over someone who you still love ? I cant take a man over my kids..they have nobody else .thier father is in rehab and Im all they have ....please can you help me?