I am with one now. She is my ex partner I am her rm. I am an unwilling paying prisoner. If anyone thinks that lesbians or women can not be as cruel as men.. be advised and beware. Hannibal and Dexter are nothing next to the 8 years I have spent unknowingly someone whose sole motivation for everything is to harm and humiliate me to feed her sadistic evil. Get help before its too late. Dexter is great. Nothing to do with this. PLEASE. Dont fall into this. Yes I did like narcissists. A personality type. I dont know why yet but righ now I am trying to escape with what is left of my life. Glad I found your post. God bless us all. This is topic MUST be covered in detail in the future!! Speak out!