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Jul 30, 2014, 08:00 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2014
Location: Washington
Posts: 8
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Originally Posted by Regina Flume
Hi Kila82,
You've given him so many chances and nothing has been looking up. You've exerted so much time and energy into this one man that it is not fair to you to dwell on such problems. It may be time to re-invent yourself again without him. You did it once, you can do it again. Good luck!
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The thought of reinventing myself again brings tears to my eyes right now, as I type this. I know in my head that this is truth, and I see what I'm going through. But gosh, it's my heart that's causing all this turmoil. I guess that's usually the case right? A part of me feels that because I've put so much time and energy into him, that I can't bring myself to give up just yet. I know that's silly, I've told myself that before. But I do see that he has made some changes. But then my head says, maybe he's just hiding things better? How do you really know if you can trust someone again? I read a quote once that went something like, 'If you want to know if you can trust someone, you have to trust them.' So much easier said! I swear my life feels like an episode of Maury sometimes. Can people really not change? Or is that naive to think that?
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