just a update not to much has changed it seems like she is letting it be over at this point at least from what i can tell she feels guilty about it that's the expression i see on her face not anger or hate but she is in denial about her behavior near as i can tell she believes her behavior was appropriate for a platonic friendship and that she did nothing wrong she isn't denying she said these things the 1-900 # style flirting she insist it was just normal conversation and that i misinterpret everything and i still get mad when i see her no communication between us on a personal level at least since i confronted her in April i am trying to let go of my resentment but it is hard when i see her daily she still has not confirmed or denied being bipolar but i know its so obvious now i wish there were some way to resolve this so we could just work in peace but i see no way out of our current situation i feel she would just hurt me again if i were to be friends again if she is in such denial i have no idea if she is being responsible for her condition either seeing a doctor taking medication going to therapy i have looked up her criminal record she has been charged with stalking in the past and a restraining order was issued she has resisted arrest in the past as well and may have hurt a cop i defiantly feel i do not know who this woman is because of her lying i plan to stay away from her as much as i can let time do its work