I would suggest you speak to an attorney and a therapist. Perhaps your wife will agree to see a therapist with you, if not for saving the marriage but to at least help learn how to help your children deal with this.
I have always heard you should not move out of the house because that can be interpreted as abandoning the marriage or the children.
I hope you find PC helpful.
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