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Originally Posted by phillis1981
Sometimes i just cannot figure out the mind of some women.
For some days, i kept the rule of No contact... every day i have to call to my ex phone (home) so my kids can give her the "goodnight kiss".
Today she warned me that tomorrow (day before her birthday) she would call me from her cellphone (she is going out of course).
Just now she sent me some mms to ask me what would she wear... ARE you KIDDING me???
what the hell goes in people mind to do that??? is she trying to torture me?? isnt this enough?
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It's up to you to tell her to stop. Let her know that moving forward that's not something you are interested in...regarding the children...you will figure out how not to let this bother you so much with time. Maybe others here have children and can give you advice - I do not have any. But I sure know what it is like to let someone go that you still are attached to.
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