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Old Jul 31, 2014, 05:31 AM
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On top of her illness etc she is 15 yrs old with hormones going crazy which as well as affecting her illness will be causing every mood swing possible ; so in today's overtly sexual world it must be confusing.

Women/ girls quite commonly go through a state of attraction to their own gender; myself personally can find that an attractive skimpy clothed woman or in pornography sexually turns me on, but I am straight I personally wouldn't want to engage in intimacy of any level with a woman. I truly believe that I have such taste because from my earliest memories I have been bombarded with those types of images on TV and in magazines and told through advertising etc that it is a turn on. It's learnt behaviour just the same as going and ordering a coke to drink despite knowing that they only have Pepsi I always ask for Coke !

So I can imagine that now with the world so open and so desperate for each of us to label ourselves it must be incredibly confusing for any teenager, let alone your daughter with all her extra/intense emotions.

Your doing the right thing telling her your there and love her no matter what. I'm sure she'll work it out especially as she has your support just be patient a while longer
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