The sex thing won't change depending on who my T or pdoc is. I wrote something once on PC that stated my T and pdoc felt that at this point the sex may not be worth it because it might create expectations that might not be followed up on. My H read it that and understandably wasn't happy.

But this was an issue for 10 years before I saw my pdoc - its been there since day 1. So while it can be easy to blame my pdoc for that, it's not the reason. It was a stupid thing to write online, but it has nothing to do with it otherwise.