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Originally Posted by Lauliza
The biggest change is now I go to graduate school and I complain. I speak up, I give him a bit of what he calls "attitude". I've written that he's old fashioned and can be a jerk. I do attribut this to a lot of the support I've gotten from my T and pdoc. He does too and this is where the "poinsoning" comes into play. If I hadn't seen them (especially him) everything would be the way it once was. Which I do not ever want back, but he does.
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would he ever be open to any kind of marriage counseling? idk. i guess i wonder how connected the two of you can be when he wants you to be your old unhappy, passive self so that he doesn't have to deal with really getting to know you.
not trying to be judgmental, it just seems like there's a big rift where he's going to have to accept and give.