I would not change pdocs. My H gets jealous of pdoc and t too - he has insecurities and wants me to never talk about him in session (I do anyway - he's a major source of material for sessions). H is just now seeing that it is starting to help me deal with the issues we have. Good for you for standing up for yourself even if your H thinks it's "attitude". You should not have to go back to the way things were. Is your H uncomfortable with change - any change for good or bad? My H hates change.