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Originally Posted by Polibeth
I would not change pdocs. My H gets jealous of pdoc and t too - he has insecurities and wants me to never talk about him in session (I do anyway - he's a major source of material for sessions). H is just now seeing that it is starting to help me deal with the issues we have. Good for you for standing up for yourself even if your H thinks it's "attitude". You should not have to go back to the way things were. Is your H uncomfortable with change - any change for good or bad? My H hates change.
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Same here. He assumes he is the topic of conversation in ALL my sessions, which he isn't. He can't imagine why else I'd be there. He is a topic of course, but not the only one. My H is also not comfortable with change. He is very rigid in his thinking- very traditional- and has trouble thinking outside the box. Also, discussions about sex just don't happen with him, he is very uncomfortable talking about it in any way. It can quickly become critical because he has rigid ideas about the way things "should" be.