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Originally Posted by celtic.starlite
My T made a mistake, and she has apologized to me several times for her mistake, even after I realized I'm not upset with her, I'm upset with me. She realizes she should not have told me that, and she feels bad. I should not have allowed myself to believe it, ESPECIALLY when I know things happen and there is never a guarantee. So please, don't think she is a bad T, she is a great person.
Celtic
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OK, I can go with the- we're all human, we all make mistakes if you feel that way
And you know it says
a lot about you that you're not upset with her/not resentful or bitter towards her considering what you've been through with people.
BIG achievement!!! But please try not to turn the pain/the upset in on yourself. Of course it's natural to feel some pain, to feel some hurt, but try to remember some of the things she gave you too and how far you've
already moved on........and in a relatively shortish time............don't take that away from yourself. You've earned/deserved it!!!
Alison