I also would not change any doctors based on my fiance's insecurities.

My fiance was extremely jealous of both my T and Pdoc for many reasons. I openly express my care and love for my docs, I tell them EVERYTHING, they are strong/smart/independent women who are encouraging me to find my independence, I have people supporting me and he doesn't, and my docs will only talk to him if it's absolutely necessary.

My doctors and I are female and I'm straight, so the insecurity didn't come from a fear of a romantic relationship.

My fiance can be very controlling. He doesn't like all the changes I'm doing and was constantly sabotaging me for most of this last year.

But I told him: "If you allow me to gain my independence and be my own person, you will know that I truly love you for you because it will be MY choice to stay with you instead of staying with you because you manipulated me." It’s true, and he has seemed to let down his guard some and is learning to trust me with my T and Pdoc.

I hope it all works out for you!