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Originally Posted by JLarissaDragon
I agree with the Well on this one. Since the two of you created a child you have the responsibility to care for it and nurture it, A father needs to be a lot more than a sperm donor and a mother a lot more than a womb. Behaving responsibly means supporting each other, being faithful to each other and by the way staying clean and sober. When we take the responsibility for another life it is no longer about just us and our wants
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Yeah of course we both do. I guess I didn't get where tearing someone down was part of being a good mom though or sexually neglecting one's partner which are my concerns I'm not really insecure as my gf to be a dad as she is to be a parent. For 1, I have finished college by the time the baby is born I am a homeowner with a promising job and career. Also I'm more nurturing than her. She had insecurities since she could never be a mom. A "good" mom since she's mentally been dealing with identity issues. She's yet to finish college 2 years more. And she has no job or home of her own so I can understand her frustration I just don't like how she expresses this or puts that onto me when I've been in the right and supportive since day 1.