AppalachianAxis, You said "keeping"!! .

And time to challenge those thoughts of "impurity", or where they've come from?? And you've now got a few more weapons in doing that, hey?? I mean none of us are judging you!!
I mean everyone will have their own personal standards and that's fine..........but when they're hurting themselves, maybe time to have another look at how well they really work. And besides I have the feeling that those standards more belong to prejudices set out by others rather than to YOU.
So "impure" in my eyes just because you've got/use a dildo..........not "buying it"!!!
That's kind of next to saying it's a sin, and we know it's not, don't we??!! Don't we??!!!

And if I'm still having to convince you!!
If you can't quite let go of thinking it's.......
For me the quality of "purity" is well down the list when it comes to other qualities e.g. compassion, empathy, sensitivity, caring.............now those are the qualities to really be respected, the qualities that can make a real difference, the qualities that make a person outstanding. Wouldn't you agree?? Just a little??



Alison