you know..i used to have dreams i was being raped by my mother and stepdad and alot of others still do....and i was so deeply ashamed that i would have a dream like that about my real mother and stuff...very embarassing but i read somewhere that its not about sex at all....i read that we all know sex is intimate...sex is about trust and love and commitment...and that if i was having a dream my mom was raping me...having sex with me..that i wanted her approval ...i wanted to trust her and i wanted her to love me...and to share with each other a love....but it formed into the rape because she took that wanting away..she took my desires of a motherly love away from me....do you know those who kidnapped you? Maybe next time in the dream concentrate on their faces if you dont know now....maybe its someone you know...or never expected...