Legal separation is also very important that way anything that he does that is financially irresponsible can't be held against you after the separation is filed. I can definitely understand your feelings about NOT wanting him back.....& I can understand your wondering What in the world is he getting out of his behavior?.......I have had the same questions....but then some people's thinking is so sick that there is no rational understanding of them.
You are fairly close to the state that I live in......I was surprised that the cost for getting a divorce in the state I live in is only $750....it's a lot but not like the $3000 that all the lawyers in California require just to even start a divorce proceedings......that is a huge difference & I think that's pretty normal in this area of the US even though kids add a level of difficulty to any divorce......worth looking into because a good lawyer can give you good advice so that you can protect yourself & your children against anything stupid or intentional that he might do to you
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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