Do you see a 29 year old as starting to age or ageing?
Would you stop seeing them as a young woman?
Would you find it unusual for them not to have reached certain milestones?
Would you find it weird that they worked in childcare but was still single with no kids themselves?

I don't mind admitting that I am terrified about turning 29 and worried that people will view me as weird as I am not like other 29 year olds. I look about 16 for a start and have a childlike body. I also don't have kids and am single.
I worry all the time that people think I am too old for my career in childcare and that I am too old to work in a daycare when I have no kids of my own. I feel like people are expecting me to marry and have kids soon and that I am leaving both very late. I also worry that people find it strange that I look so young when I am approaching 30.
I feel really anxious about myself lately and worry that I am automatically labelled as behind in life and an ageing weirdo. I know that sounds extreme but it is how I feel.
Am I doing ok or should I be worried?