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Originally Posted by finebutnotokay
yeah i know i really don't want peer pressure to play any kind of part in this but it's just very difficult when at parties i would literally be the only one not drinking. i understand that its no ones business but i just don't want to be accused of being a bore etc. i really would love to not care what other people think about me but i do  thank you so much 
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Might be a good topic to work on in therapy.....it's important especially when we are young to not be controlled by peer pressure. The desire to fit in & not stand out & be accepted can really mess up our real values & then we look back with regret rather than pride that we were able to stand up for ourself.