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Originally Posted by RobG
Er, you should be able to talk to your gf about your insecurities without it ending in an argument? How does that even happen?
You should be able to open up to her and tell her whatever is ailing you, and she should comfort you and reassure you and then the insecurity should go away.
Thats what should happen. At what point does this not happen?
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It happens because people bottle things up until they are out of control and then they come out sideways and altogether wrong...stop the bottling and talk about it when the issue is happening...don't stew on it for days or weeks at a time...and I think the arguments will cease almost entirely regarding the insecurity issue...just be sure to discuss this new approach with your girl prior to putting into practice so she knows what to expect and isn't armed for argument...