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Originally Posted by wildflowerchild25
My husband trusts me to manage the money so when I'm hypo I usually ok us going out to eat at expensive places and he thinks it's ok because I'm saying it is...
[...]I buy all the things I've put off buying because we can't afford it like clothes, shoes, nail polish, hair dye, toys for my son, etc.
This time I've booked a vacation. Only two days, a long weekend really, but my husband doesn't have a job and my job ends for the summer on august 7 so you tell me how we're goin to afford to stay in a hotel and buy tickets of the train museum etc? I have no idea but I was hypo And wanted to go. It may gt canceled.
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Wildflowerchild I hear ya that it may get cancelled. You just might have to do that very thing...
This sounds a bit like me. It's like I scrimp and save and put things off and am careful with our money..... and then I'll suddenly be like, "Oh we can handle it!" and I overspend or grow debt.
I returned the $1000.00 bunk bed today which was no problem since it hadn't been delivered yet. Phew, disaster averted.
I definitely need to pay more attend to this and make sure we don't increase our debt.
I'm appreciating this thread folks....
