My Wife and I didn’t make love until three years into our relationship due to some personal problems in her past I won’t go into details on this thread but during that time I had a number of people suggest I should sleep with other women and we should have an open marriage and I used to get offended by this because I loved my Wife and the thought of sleeping with another woman that wasn’t her would have been cheating on her to me even if she was okay with it and while it isn’t my place to judge and tell other people how they should live their lives I just don’t understand how somebody can claim to truly love a person but then sleep with another person.

What are your thoughts?