Just to add on to what Big Mama wrote.
Do you know any women that have a brother, sister, cousin or a friend with Asperger’s? The reason I ask is because it is so much easier to be with someone that already has an understanding of it than a person that is clueless as Big Mama pointed. My step daughter is Autistic and back when I met Hailey (my Wife) she knew more about my disabilities than me because she spent so much time studying all of them and that has been very helpful over the years. She currently runs a support group for people with children with disabilities in our area and I am always surprised by how many people turn up for it every week and I think people with disabilities are on the rise but back on the subject if you can find a woman like my Wife that really understands Asperger’s I think you will be fine.
It is important to note not everybody with Asperger’s Syndrome is the same and while some can be cold and appear to lack empathy my Wife says I am one of the most compassionate people she has ever known.