I understand as well...you know what i tend to do at times?? If i get mixed up and the screenname is no help i accidentally will call a girl a guy and so forth..i try to be supportive and then they call me on my mix up and i feel like crap because i think that they think how can she be supportive of me if she doesnt even know what gender i am??? And you know what its happen to me too....people call me a guy because InACorner...well doesnt really give any hint....just yesterday i called Jax a boy...lol turned out SHE was nothing of the sort...SORRY JAX hehe....we all get confused no worries...like Darkeyes said...its because the site is soo big and there are so many people to meet and learn about ...it can geting confusing...i hope your doing ok ...and hopefully it turns out to be alittle easier for you later on...good luck
love, Inny (im a girl..hehe)