Do you feel positive after that dream? I think allot of women start to use seduction to gain power over men because of past abuse. If you can't escape it, use it to make them grovel... I can definately relate to that thinking. I think though maybe there is another level of overcoming that experience. The power to chose to walk away. The power to chose those who are in our lives and the relationship we have with them. Hopefully I get there.