Well Sister I think you are on the right train now.... I think that I like a combo thing but the therapeutic has to be there. Support and no confrontation or connection...or moving forward... then you are not leaving the station...

And yes, I am finding this to be an excellent site. I have been to others where people are wanting to wallow (which we all know is necessary sometimes....) but I am not seeing the incredible desire to move forward. It is hard but so important.

Good for you......