Fuzzy, would you take a chance on trusting us folks here...

? Would you like to share with us what in your mind constitutes a caring therapist? You just might get some validation here. I'm starting to think you're with a non-caring one....but I wouldn't know.
Also, what characteristics do you see in a non-caring therapist? What does he/she do or not do? say or not say?
If you don't feel like sharing, we understand....
Take gentle care,