I've been dating someone I knew from college- about 12 years ago. Hinge have been going great, until this week. He was in a crappy mood and being negative. I called him while he was riding his motorcycle, thinking it would be nice to leave him a sweet message to cheer him up. Later that night I asked if he got my message and he was like no- I didn't check my phone or listen to the voicemail. I was thinking- then how are you texting me right now?? Plus if I was in a crappy mood and someone I liked called to cheer me up, I'd think that was nice! So I said, "nothing I can do or say to make u feel better. I'll just talk to you tomorrow."

He was rude and disrespectful back to me. His response to me asking if he got my message was something along the lines of "Christ- I didn't check my freaking messages okay? It has nothing to do with you!'"

All I responded was ok. I gave it a day and sent him a message telling him I'm here for him if he wants to talk. I also asked if he was able to let me know about this weekend- we were planning a trip out of state for him to meet my grandmother. He responded and said- I've been working a double. I said ok, if u feel like talking, I'm around tonight and tomorrow. Nothing. I haven't heard from him in 4 days.

I know I don't do anything wrong to make him not want to talk to me? How could he just stop communicating? I mean things were going well. Maybe something happened and he's upset, but if he doesn't let me in, I can't help him or understand him.

And who breaks up with someone by just not talking to them? Tell me how mature that is!!!! So it's taking everything I've got to not text him and be like what the heck- so u just drop people??? What did I do besides want to be there for you? Right now I assume he has broken up with me.