Don't feel bad about being a virgin! If people laugh at you, screw them! I was a virgin until 23. I am at university, and I know exactly what you're referring to. It's like everyone else is "doing it" and you're not. I hated that feeling. Felt like I was missing out. But, don't let it get to you! Don't let it make you want to lose your virginity! I cracked at 23, because I couldn't take it anymore. I had never been touched, kissed, hugged or even looked at by a girl before that. That sucks when you're in an environment with thousands of hot young girls walking around! But, don't let it break you! I did and I regret it very much. When you have a casual encounter, the sex physically feels really boring. Even masturbating feels better. I'm really not joking. I wish I never wasted my virginity on something so stupid and boring, because you can never get it back. Trust me, you're not missing out on much at all. The whole thing is overrated and brings more regret than anything else. My first time also sucked because I was too lame to get a girlfriend and I ended up doing it with a woman almost twice my age (42). I'm now 25 and still haven't had a girlfriend. I'm still waiting for the right girl, and you should too. But, I see you say you don't have any real desire to do it, so use that to your advantage. You won't be as likely to crack as easy as I did, because I confess, I am a very sexual person, even though I'm single. I looooove girls. So, if you got that natural resistance to sexual activity, then I would say use it! I wish I had some of that so that I wasn't such a hopeless romantic .

Argh, and that just sucks big time, when you're parents/family nag you about not having a girlfriend. You have all my sympathies with that .