34 is a great age. You have plenty of time, even tho it may not seem like it. I'm 55 and dating, but have no interest of having an actual bf at this point. I'm still taking care of me after an unsuccessful relationship and awful break up. Focus on yourself, and you'll be astonished how quickly someone 'finds' you.

People always gravitate to positve people...be one of them and you'll enjoy the rest of your life, with or without a bf.

Good luck!