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Old Aug 02, 2014, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted by glok View Post
Hello, ak482. Your obsession with sex and assumed confirmation bias are making your life difficult. Does your therapist know that sometimes you are so down you do not even want to live?

Out of curiosity, do you expect someone to run up to you and ask you to have sex with them? Is sex more important than a relationship? Are you looking for a one night stand? Maybe, friends with benefits? How important is the person who relieves you of your virginity?

I wish you well.
Ideally I want sex as part of a relationship. Part of my sex therapy has been to realize that having a relationship is the best way to be a good lover and to have sex. However, since I never get feedback as to why I can't get past a first date, I feel lost and alone. And it's those negative feelings that keep kicking in; the feeling that I'm still a little boy and not a man because I haven't had sex. As I've said, it's like my body is physically craving sex
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