Pinksoil, sounds like you've got some pretty intense stuff going on....phew, I was nearly sweating by the end of your post...yeah, heavy duty work...stick with it girl, stick with it...it would seem to make sense for you to see t at least twice a week with all this going on...
Though I work with an analytically-inclined therapist there are times when I ask her for a cognitive-behavioral intervention, cuz the intensity is too much for me and the cbt is a temporary fix....