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Maybe he is aware that you feel the clock is ticking and he is not on board. You would both have to be very honest about what you want. He may not be the one but it's fair to let someone know, that you are getting into a relationship with, you value having a family sooner rather than later. You really do not get to know more about "who someone really is" until about 6 months or more into a relationship. It's how you get through the difficult times that matter.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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