If it's upsetting, so soon into things, certainly not a good indicator of things to come.

Something stood out to me, of your expressions. I'm here, if you want to talk. Perhaps something more direct, I'm not busy right now,I'm headed to bed around, say 11. You can call, if you want, otherwise, I'll text in the morning, when i wake up.
A little word change, to take the submissive angle out of the equation and reminds him, you are to be desired and not an afterthought.
Sorry, this guy didn't work out.