I think when guys are upset are unhappy they cop attitudes. My husband does stuff like this and it angers and upsets me. Last night I just ended up arguing with him. I asked him why he was being so mean to me, especially as I wasn't feeling well to begin with. After we had the argument it cleared the air and he apologized. Of course we have been married for 28 years so we are used to each other's dispositions. Depression doesn't make any of this mess any better either. Big hugs to you.