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Old Aug 03, 2014, 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
It felt more like fear and shame about her seeing me so closely.
That's why you don't look. What are you afraid and ashamed of? When you work through the fear and shame you won't have trouble looking at her or letting her look at you.

I was afraid of being revealed but once I started revealing myself to us, I did not have that fear anymore so not as much problem with the intimacy.
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