speaking for myself, i don't think i have seen love in so long that it is hard for me to believe it being real or that i have ever really seen love before.

there is a song by Richard Marx with a line that goes:
"Love is a stranger avoiding me;
'Beware of Danger' is the only sign I see."

i suppose, however, just because I haven't seen it, doesn't mean it isn't real.

what does it look like?

maybe i have seen it, but didn't recognize it.