sister,
I don't know if you are on meds or not, but antidepressants caused me to not be able to cry. I have seen others post about this too (on the medication board, I think).
I've since quit taking meds and can and do cry easily--too easily sometimes! But I hated that I couldn't cry on meds, so I don't mind it too much.
If you're talking about these things, you are on your way to the emotions about them. Give it some more time and for sure don't judge yourself about whether you cry or not.
Crying might be a good topic for a session....
ECHOES