I thought my mom disliked me and that I was huge disappointment to her . . . until I was in my 50s. Turns out, a lot of it was about my over-sensitivity and insecurity.

I had a conversation with my cousin once about how my brother had always been mom's favorite . . . and she said, "All she talks about is you."

Like Pat said, try to see some things from her POV. And keep on with the counseling.

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